A terrific mother possesses a healthy respect and vast vision for each of her children. Yes, in that order. I don’t think you can have vast vision unless you have a healthy respect.
The next time you hold that little one in your arms and you look deeply into those big blue eyes or those big brown eyes, talk to the Lord about what He wants to do with that child. “What’s God’s plan for you, little one? I want to be all that I can be for you to reach your fullest, most treasured dream.”
I never come across Proverbs 18:16 without remembering an afternoon. Hot and sweaty, I was running out of the house in Houston. I ran out through the kitchen, out the back door, had my football in my hand. I was going to go play sandlot ball that I had done time after time down at the end of our street.
My mother stopped me and she said, “Honey, I’ve just been reading over in Proverbs, and it says this, ‘A man’s gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men.’ And I’m claiming that for you, honey.” I thought, “Give me a break! Come on.” And I was anxious to get out. But that kind of rang around in my head. And as I grew up, I didn’t forget that encounter.
Many years later I ministered to some members of the Cabinet, a couple of senators and a congressman and some people from the Pentagon. Most prestigious people I’ve ever stood before. And suddenly I thought about my mother’s comment. “A man’s gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men.” And I quietly in my heart the next morning said, “Thank You, Lord, for my mother’s vision.”
You may have in your arms, without realizing it, a leader of the future, a judge, a pastor, an inventor, an artist, a musician, an entertainer, an architect, a fine, clear-minded businessman, a statesperson. You may have someone in your care right now who will shape the future, and you don’t know it. Believe it!
Commit yourself afresh today to vision for your children, whatever God may have for them. What a privilege to have a hand in shaping that life. What a calling.
Charles R. Swindoll, adapted from “Tips on Being a Terrific Mother” in the Life Lessons Just for Women series.
